About Sheila

Sheila Jack of all trades, master of all... When I am not here, you'll find me at www.sheilaspeaks.com and on twitter as @Mxscharles.

Author Archives: Sheila

Can’t Steal My Shine

May 8th, 2013 | by Sheila

The need for attention affects us all; from a very young age, we learn little tricks to get the attention

Rich Man, Poor Man

April 10th, 2013 | by Sheila

After years in school and two years of job hunting, here I am waiting for a client who has refused

What You Don’t Know

March 27th, 2013 | by Sheila

There’s a famous saying which goes ‘what you don’t know won’t kill you’ when really what most people are thinking

While having a conversation on the ideal man's characteristics with a group of young ladies, one of them unapologetically said 'I must marry into money, no buts and no adjustments, if he doesn't have a proper bank account that can give me the life I want then I will not consider him.'

Wednesday Dialogue

Never Been Val’ed

February 6th, 2013 | by Sheila

Well it's now 8 days to valentine's day and the last time I really spoke to Tunde was 2 weeks ago. He has gotten very distant and I am wondering what I could have possibly done wrong

Wednesday Dialogue

He’s Old Enough

January 23rd, 2013 | by Sheila

**** While having dinner with a few friends, the issue of dating younger men came up because, one of

Wednesday Dialogue

The Untouchables

October 31st, 2012 | by Sheila

I am in no way preaching marital infidelity nor moral decadence, far from it. Instead, I am dealing with a situation that already exists. On Monday, we spoke about letting men cheat and some ladies were quick to bring up the 'all men are cheats/dogs' debate. Ok let’s say we agree that all men are cheats but are they cheating with themselves?

Blog jacking Friday

The Key To A Happy And Successful Relationship: Let Your Man Cheat

October 29th, 2012 | by Sheila

John Legend, who is not a doctor, covered this subject years earlier in his song Number One where he croons the following romantic lyrics, “You can’t say I don’t love you, Just because I cheat on you, Cuz you can’t see all I do, To keep you from knowing the things I do, Like erase my phone, And keep it out of town, I keep it strapped up when I sleep around.”