Published on April 2nd, 2012 | by Sheila22
Take Not To Mama: 3 Types Of Men Not To Date (pt. 1)
After a couple of personal experiences and experiences of my friends I have come to the realization that there are certain kinds of men that need to be eliminated from the face of the earth thus they should be tagged as undateable to any woman in the world. These men all fall into 3 categories, which are: The Neanderthals, Sigmunds and the Quilts.
No I am not talking about the specie that became extinct about 350,000 years ago, I am talking about the ones that live in this present day acting like they are the strongest men on the face of the planet. Characteristics of these men are:
Lack of emotion: they find it hard to tell you that they care for you even if they do, they believe just dating you is enough emotion they can give to you. The act of respecting and caring for a woman is nowhere in their agenda because it is seen as a sign of weakness amongst their fellow Neanderthals.
Lack of Trust: they almost never trust you, they believe every boy/man you talk to is your other man and thus they make you cut off all your male friends and maybe some female ones too because you want to please them.
Dictators: they never want to hear your opinion, whatever you say or suggest is crap to them. They believe that they are the best and no other person can correct them.
Don’t ever expect them to apologize because it is a sign of weakness and they can never be weak.
These are the philosophers, the ones that mess up with your head before you realize what’s going on, they are generally the nice guys that play girls but they are almost never caught because they are that good. Their characteristics are:
Date to please: they usually claim to like whatever you like and they act like they understand you better than anyone else. The truth is they know what you are thinking before you do and probably have sisters or read female magazines so they know how to get to the soft spot of the prey (women).
Self Pity: Unfortunately, not all of them are that good looking in one way or the other, so they make you feel like you are the best that came their way (which may be true) and all they want is for you to feel bad for them constantly. Every time you threaten to breakup with them, they soon relate it to their looks or financial inability or whatever their shortcomings are.
Provider: They want to act as your provider, what they do is that they find where you are lacking or whatever it is that makes you incomplete and they provide for you in that way. Examples include giving you money if you lack financially, love if you lack love, understanding if you think no one understands you, support if you think you lack support, self esteem if you think you are not good enough, and so much more.
Past Mistakes: they are the first to bring up stories about their past and sometimes have mean things to say about their ex’s. Notice how in all their stories, they are the victims, it’s all a facade so you can pity them even more.
Now these are the perfect example of “good from far but far from good” also known as rejects. They are a rare combination of both the Neanderthals and the Sigmunds. Think of a quilt literally, it’s stuff left over from clothes and dresses, they are too small to be used so in other words they are practically useless. In addition to the characteristics of the Neanderthals and the Sigmunds they have one more special characteristic and that is:
Nothing to offer: in most cases, they have nothing to offer, not money, security, intelligence. They usually look good on the outside but inside, they are absolutely empty.
So there you have it. That’s my list and I’m sure a lot of women here can relate. In conclusion, I’d like to say, no man is perfect but the key is finding the right man for you. Define who you are first then you’ll know who you are compatible with. It’s time to hear from you, do you agree with my list? Think I’ve missed out anything, please use the comment box to speak your mind. As for the guys, you can also identify which category you fall under and maybe try to defend your brethren.
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