Hey people, Toolsman here. The women’s month is just about done and it’s been all kinds of awesome for me. I’m also enjoying the Lights Out series which kicked off on Monday, if you’ve not been reading, don’t be a chicken, go ahead and catch up. Today, I want to share something I read online recently and then use that to get our dialogue going. Y’all know I don’t really like lists but this time I’m going to make an exception because I want to keep this as simple as possible. See you on the flipside.
A lot of women who are married or are in monogamous relationships will often say that their man wants to have sex more frequently that they feel like it. The result is that a lot of women end up having sex even when they don’t want to. Below are some reasons that women end up rolling in the hay even when they don’t want to:
They understand that relationships are give and take – Let’s face it, most men who watch “chick flicks” with their wives and girlfriends typically don’t do it because that’s what they have been looking forward to all week. It is more likely that they do it because they care about her and will tolerate a “chick flick” here and there or will occasionally go shoe shopping with her because that’s what she wants. The same goes for the ladies; even when she is not in the mood for a little “nooky”, she might go along just because she wants to put a smile on her man’s face.
They are afraid of losing their man – The truth is that not every woman is completely secure in their relationship and even if they are, maybe their man is not completely trustworthy. Some women will do the do a little more often than they would like because they are afraid their man will get his needs met somewhere else or he will leave and try to find someone more compatible in the bedroom.
It’s an exchange – Some women like nice comfortable lives and there are men who will spend large amounts of money on their woman if she keeps him happy in the bedroom. These women value comfort and security and as long as they feel comfortable and well provided for, they will keep giving their man what he needs in the bedroom, even during the times that they don’t really feel like it
It doesn’t take that long – Actual sex really doesn’t have to take that long so sometimes it may just be easier to say yes and just do it, rather than say no and risk hurting your man’s feelings.
At the end of the day, you might find that even if you started out reluctant, you still end up enjoying yourself! As long as you make the choice and are not forced into the act, having sex when you you initially didn’t want to may turn out to be just what you needed.
Originally posted HERE
So, I want your thoughts on this. Have you ever had sex when you didn’t feel like it to please your partner? Tell us about that. And for the guys reading, is this compromise just exclusive to women or have you ever had reason to ‘take one for the team’? Women mostly feel men ALWAYS want to have sex so they probably won’t even believe it but please go ahead to share your experience.
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